Promise

Last few days, consider as kinda in 'holiday' mood.. even friday is a working day.. haha~

Thursday, happy gathering with x-colleague! morning already at shopping center having some window shopping with my ji mui ~ kaka.. again.. she bought more than me... everytime kinda enjoy shopping with her.. but she always 怨 me that end up make her buy a lot, but i didnt~ kaka.. no choice.. i kinda 吝啬.. even is on myself.. hahaha~ but now still miss 1 very nice jacket~~ ><" mayb will go back n buy if got chance? hahaha.. just think not many event or chance can wear that.. so decide not to buy it...

Also, that day is a kinda popular cloth shop new opening there.. ~_~ juz i feel very 夸张 is the queue is very long -.-" im thinking.. is that really a big sale on the new opening.. i didnt go to join the queue as me & my fren think that using the time queue there.. we can at least shop for 3 or 4 more shops there.. lolz

then nite.. eat marathon with x-colleague.. haha.. from the time we met until we left... we went for 3 rounds! dinner - dessert - ice-cream - cup cake~ haha.. really eating non stop.. n having a really nice time with all of them ^^ but i think i did 1 stupid thing... as i forgot to buy bread... so when leave the shopping center.. i saw 1 24 hours convenience store.. so i decided to park somewhere around & go in get the bread... i thought that place kinda 热闹... but i found that i'm wrong.. a lot of foreigners (indo, bangladesh, etc etc) and due to i park not really near also, when i walk thru... they r looking at me with some weird face!! ><" that time im really thinking.. if i kena lou lap how ah~ hahaha.. but lucky i didnt.. just tell myself really NO NEXT TIME.. dont do such a danger thing le.. at least just try to go brighter place or not to be alone to walk those dark alley...

then.. weekend, due to some special reason, my sis elder son come overnite at my house.. here is some conversation when he called home & talk to his younger brother..

弟弟: 哥哥zomok在婆婆家? 我也要去婆婆家, 我要在婆婆家过夜~
*say real.. 1st time we heard he talked whole sentence until so smooth
哥哥: 不可以, 我在婆婆家是因为..... 所以你不能过来, 等我回来
弟弟: 我要去婆婆家睡觉...
婆婆: 好好, 下次到弟弟来婆婆家
conversation continued... n we thought the story should end here? haha.. not really

so next day, i brought the brother back to my sis house.. and like usual... having ma jiong at her house again..   then happen that we asked the 弟弟 once, tonite wanna follow popo home? 弟弟only node his head then continue his playing liao.. actually the brother wanna follow us to home again.. but too tired.. he slept and we decided not to bring him home..then... very weird, 弟弟although tired also do not want to go to bed.. juz keep stick around me & my mum... firstly we thought he just to miss us.. but not really... when we are going home.. suddenly he pulled me to his cupboard and ask me take his nice ben 10 t-shirt, then asked his mum bring his bottle and put in a bag.. then only we found out.. he want follow us home~ not to break the promise.. so we tis time bring 弟弟home..

what we found surprise is.. 弟弟said his promise - follow us to home, not juz like simply say.. for us, as adult, actually nvr really treat it as a matter. but for a 3 yrs old child, he said it, and he comply it. Say real, he nvr been alone come to my house, as he kinda stick his baby sitter and his mother. Sometime think back.. is that adult too easily simply said out something? after promise something.. they might just think, nvm, OR even break it or nvr apply it.. juz a very normal matter. Why start to forget about, promise - is a commitment - not something simply say out, n later we think it as a nothing.

Actually need to 自我反省 also, how many times i said a 'promise', but later forgot about it? A lot... & dunno why.. recently quite ez i can 'promise' something, slip my tongue, but then.. haiz...

So, i should not simply to 'promise', if really do, then i hv to try my best to accomplish it..